Marriage
The Preparation Stage for Marriage and What Comes After That
What is Marriage?
Factors affecting an informed decision
External factors
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Economic factors: spatial autonomy in terms of housing, maintenance and life requirements -
Family values: the wife's view and role of the importance of the scientific and material level of the wife, the view of divorce. -
Community values: governorate level, pre-marital mixing, attitude towards a person with a different cultural or religious background.
Internal factors
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Age of the person in terms of small and large work or in terms of age difference. -
Educational attainment and cultural level. -
One or both of them had been married before -
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Typology and beliefs
Pre-nuptial examinations
Pre-nuptial examinations
What is thalassemia?
What are the types of thalassemia?
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Minor (Thalassemia characteristic): This attribute appears when a person inherits the gene of illness from one of his parents. In this case, the person is a contagious person who does not have symptoms. He also does not know he is pregnant but can be transferred to his children -
Great: When a person inherits two genes of thalassemia from the father and mother, the child is infected with the disease and show symptoms after 3 to 6 months of birth
What are the causes of thalassemia?
Deficiency in the production of blood proteins that are the red blood cells of the human body causes him:
what happens if you fail to treat thalassemia or treat it in the wrong way?
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Severe anemia
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Delayed growth
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Osteoporosis
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The appearance of facial bones
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Iron collects in various organs of the body and damage to the heart muscle, liver, pancreas and endocrine all in the patient's body
Knowledge of injury
Handling the results of tests
Marital Values
Marital Values
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Tolerance: It is to forgive one spouse for his partner and look at the mistake of the wrong of the perpetrator and look at his guilt and compassion as a person exposed to error and weakness.
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Honesty and openness: It is considered the basis of trust and affects the growth of the relationship between spouses and their continuation and gives safety to both spouses. It is important to present the truth to the partner in a loving and friendly manner and frankness is the basis for a transparent relationship in which problems can be resolved before they become complex.
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Passion: Expressing emotion by touching, embracing, kissing, kissing, kissing, kissing, kissing and kissing makes the couple feel happy, energetic and energetic, helping to face life and their challenges.
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Acceptance: It is important that both spouses accept each other as they are and respect each other's rights and feelings.
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Sincerity: It is important to be reciprocal and not only to the other party, but to the family and the home in which they are involved.
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Respect: mutual respect each person in the relationship to overcome certain boundaries even when differences and differences respect is required not only in front of people, but at home and especially in front of boys and girls and servants.
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Affection: Make the couple embrace frames that keep away from severe convulsions and show mutual appreciation and expression of emotions.
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Support and support: necessary to face the difficulties of life, both will pass a difficult period requires support and support from the partner, which strengthens the relationship and strengthens.
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Expressing feelings: Whatever the positive or negative feelings of health expressed, it is necessary to pay attention to the manner of expression and timing to give this expression the desired result in the marital relationship.
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Communicate positively and listen: Strengthen the relationship between the couple is a way to express love and appreciation to the other side of the compliment is important when one of the spouses work in a good way and encouragement is important to mitigate in failure.
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Participation: The principle of participation is essential so that no party feels neglected or suppressed or of no value. Participation involves not only the fateful decisions of the family but also a daily act that becomes a way of dealing with and a way of life in various areas of life.
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Division of tasks: helps relieve stress and take joint responsibility on more than one level may include these tasks:
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Arrange the house
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Home Needs Insurance.
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Follow up the teaching of children.
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Organizing children's activities.
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Take care of children's health.
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Maintenance of home tools.
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pay bills
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Interest in official papers and obtaining them.
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Recreational, social and cultural tasks.
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There is no fixed base for dividing these tasks. It varies according to the family and its different circumstances. It takes into consideration the work of women outside the home. Physical abilities The number and age of boys and girls. It is important to note that in our societies women are often unable to work at home. Work is tired and requires great time and effort.
How to deal with husband and wife with others
The principle of solidarity is the basis, and the prior agreement on the principles and on dealing with certain situations avoid confrontation between the spouses because of contradictory positions in front of others. In addition, the adopted method of dealing must meet the needs of both parties without creating problems with the big family and the behavior of men Often play a key role in putting an end to interventions while maintaining positive relations with all.
First Child Born
When should the first child be born?